(Brinson + Banks/Washington Post Illustration) By Tatum Hunter November 12, 2021 at 8:00 a.m. EST By Tatum Hunter November 12, 2021 at 8:00 a.m. EST Our online privacy stories helped spark the idea for a Help Desk, where we can collect and answer questions from Washington Post readers about the technology in their lives. This week, were looking at tracking, data collection and privacy, with readers wondering just how much companies know about their online and offline activities. Is anything really private while our phones, smart speakers and voice assistants are around? And is all the anxiety about online privacy really necessary? Help Desk: Technology coverage that makes tech work for youArrowRight We also want to hear your questions about ad targeting, digital privacy and corporate surveillance. Send them to us at . Until then, here are some answers to your most pressing privacy concerns. Story continues below advertisement Is my phone listening to me? Is my phone listening in on my conversations and recommending me ads based on what it hears? I was having a conversation with my sister about buying clothes and she recommended Etsy then moments after that conversation ended I was browsing Reddit and saw an Etsy ad out of the blue. Then I browsed Facebook and saw another Etsy ad. Is it pure coincidence? Advertisement CJ, New Haven, Conn. This is one of the most frequent tech questions I hear from friends and family. Some news sites have claimed that companies use our phones to listen to our conversations and figure out what we might want to buy next. Other outlets have reported that isnt true, and Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg has denied it under oath. Whats going on here? Story continues below advertisement Its an old wives tale, said Eric Seufert, who founded the marketing consultancy Heracles Media and runs a popular blog for app developers. Its this kind of mythical, horrific, but ultimately untrue, fear. The short answer is: No, your phone isnt listening. But why is this rumor so hard to shake? Like you described, sometimes a companys ability to show us an ad for something we were just thinking or talking about is totally uncanny. How does Instagram know when I am in precisely the head space to spend $50 on roller skates despite living on top of a giant hill? Advertisement As weve reported, Instagram and its owner, Facebook, dont need to listen to my conversations to figure out that Ive got a drawer dedicated to ill-advised hobby equipment. Neither do other giant ad companies like Google and Amazon. They already have my search history, in-app interactions, past purchases, online profiles and favorite websites, and they share that information with advertisers for a price. Story continues below advertisement Lets imagine that you get together with your sister and mention that youve always wanted to go to Disney World. The next day, you hop onto Facebook and suddenly see ads for the theme park. To a creeped-out customer, the connection seems clear: Conversation about Disney World > ad for Disney World. But this coincidence might have nothing to do with the words you said out loud, Seufert explained. Advertisement Maybe after mentioning Disney World, you absent-mindedly flipped open an airline app and checked how much it would cost to fly to Orlando this summer, he said. Now, the online ad machine knows youre considering Orlando who better to hit with an ad for Disney World? Or maybe youd been getting the ads all along and only noticed them after the discussion. Story continues below advertisement But the best argument against audio targeting is this, according to Seufert: If we truly believe companies are using our phones to listen to every single thing we say, wouldnt it be time to panic? The only reasonable response to an invasion of privacy at that scale would be tossing our phones into the ocean, he said. In that sense, the audio-targeting debate is a good excuse to ask yourself where youd draw the line in terms of companies and governments peeking into your life. How much surveillance is too much, and who should get to decide? No, Facebook doesnt eavesdrop on your phone. But it does spy on you. Why should I care about online privacy, anyway? So Ive seen your articles on how tech takes advantage of you and agree that its a huge violation (not to add creepy). Id love it if you elaborated on why targeted ads are so bad, and what could possibly happen with the data collected on us in the future? Advertisement Story continues below advertisement Cleo, Halifax, Nova Scotia Thank you for this honest question. Tech journalists can write stories all day about the different ways companies use personal data to learn about you and advertise to you, but that doesnt automatically make targeted advertising and data collection bad. Smart people at companies including Google and Facebook make strong arguments for targeted advertising. It helps businesses reach new audiences. It makes the ads you inevitably see better match your interests spending money on new stuff is necessary sometimes. And it powers personalized experiences online. Thanks to data collection, TikTok learned to show me videos of (my favorite thing) angry cats listening to (my other favorite thing) Broadway classics. Story continues below advertisement There are plenty of brands that rely on targeted advertising and data collection for their revenue, including YouTube, Reddit and even The Washington Post. Advertisement Theres also a growing number of privacy advocates who dont like that people arent given much choice about what they share with companies and when. Targeted ads may compel us to spend more money and expose us to more false information. And as more of our lives move into virtual spaces and technology becomes more embedded, these debates get more urgent. What will data collection look like in the metaverse or in technology that connects directly with our brains? Casey Oppenheim, co-founder and CEO of Disconnect, an app that blocks trackers that scoop up your data on different apps and websites, said companies dont just collect fragmented pieces of your data a name here and a phone number there. They build profiles of you and make inferences about you based on the data they see, and they sell or share those profiles with advertisers, politicians and even law enforcement. Story continues below advertisement Its weird that people dont get the option to say no to all this data sharing, he said. Plus, as the line between our real and online lives gets blurrier, so does the term personal data. Is a company that tracks everything I do on my browser monitoring my personal data, or is it monitoring me? Advertisement How much you care about privacy depends on how all this makes you feel. If you like personalized online experiences and guarding information about yourself isnt a priority, youre definitely not alone. If youd feel better with more rules around what information companies and governments can collect about you and when, thats a good reason to dedicate some brain space to online privacy. For a quick and easy online privacy crash course, check out this guide to settings you can change today. Facebook limits some political ad targeting, but impact is unlikely to be great
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